So I have to move out soon and so that gives me the chance to live the way I want to. But the problem is that the town is two small. Minneapolis. My family knows everyone. And my mother has been telling me for years she would disown me if I was gay.
Can you move somewhere outside of Minneapolis?
or the probably least desirable option is say fuck it and let her disown you. You don’t need toxic people in your life. Someday, who knows, maybe she’ll come around and realize she is wrong, but you don’t need to force yourself to be in a position to be hated.
I'm sorry for seeming so down, I'm just really confused and have no one to give me guidance. I saw your post and want to talk. I don't know if I'm bi gay or straight. Sometimes I'm one and other times I'm another.
IT’S OKAY. NEVER APOLOGIZE FOR NOT BEING HAPPY. I am always here for you. :)
I know it can be a bit difficult sometimes trying to figure out your sexuality, but don’t worry. Some people don’t figure it out until they’re in their 20s or 30s even older. You don’t even need to label yourself. All that matters is that you are happy with yourself. Don’t let anyone put you in a box. You’ll figure it out when you’re ready. :)
So I honestly don't think I can be unhappy in the same state as my family. I think that I should move because I don't think my lifestyle that I want to live has enough room for all of us. Is this a good idea. I'm bi btw and don't plan on c. o.
Honestly, you should do whatever you feel will be best for you. Life is hard enough without added stress especially if you can diminish that stress.
Family is important, but you should always put your mental health and happiness first.
If you can move and have no reason not to, go for it if you want. It’s always good to try new things. Although, I would probably suggest making friends and moving to an area where you’ll have friends so that it’ll make the change of scenery a little easier.
And don’t worry about coming out, you do not need to do anything you don’t feel comfortable with.
don’t ever let anyone tell you there is something wrong with you. don’t ever let anyone tell you it’s wrong to be attracted to the same sex. don’t let anyone convince you that you need to rethink your sexuality. it’s okay to be attracted to the same sex, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
i just want you all to know that i care so much. <3