Honestly, I just want all of you to know that you are all wonderful people and you deserve happiness and I will be here for you whenever you need it <3
So I have to move out soon and so that gives me the chance to live the way I want to. But the problem is that the town is two small. Minneapolis. My family knows everyone. And my mother has been telling me for years she would disown me if I was gay.
Can you move somewhere outside of Minneapolis?
or the probably least desirable option is say fuck it and let her disown you. You don’t need toxic people in your life. Someday, who knows, maybe she’ll come around and realize she is wrong, but you don’t need to force yourself to be in a position to be hated.